Reflections on family and care during the holiday season
By AHANZ co-Chair, Orquidea Tamayo Mortera, MNZM
The holiday season often brings a sense of peace and renewal, yet for those who care for ageing loved ones, it transforms into a profound journey of the heart. Last Christmas, I travelled back to Mexico, not just for celebration, but to stand beside my mother, finding courage as she faces new mobility limitations; my father, whose wisdom deepens as the years pass; and my Nana, who bravely embraces the changes of her mind with grace.
Amidst challenges and shifting realities, the Allied Health workforce shone as a beacon of hope. Their expertise, compassion, and unwavering presence transformed uncertainty into possibility, reminding us that healing is not just about medicine, but about dignity and connection.
In Mexico, care and support are a vibrant tapestry, woven from threads of science and spirit, tradition and innovation. Caregivers honour the whole person, body, mind, soul, spirit, embracing every story, every memory, and every aspiration. I witnessed practitioners blending wisdom from ancient roots with the precision of modern practice, revealing that true health care radiates from respect, love, and understanding.
A physical therapist looks beyond muscles, seeing the spirit’s yearning to dance. A cognitive specialist listens not only for answers, but for the echoes of ancestral tales and lived wisdom. In this holistic approach, care becomes a celebration of life, a reverence for those who came before and those who will come after.
As a Therapeutic Recreation Specialist, I have seen that blending scientific knowledge with cultural and spiritual understanding dignifies every moment. By honouring indigenous perspectives, care and support teams uplift elders, recognising them as the keepers of wisdom. Even as bodies change, their stories and strengths shine, inspiring us to see ageing as a gift and elders as treasures to be cherished.
As a MexiKiwi, I celebrate the powerful connection between Mexico’s ‘El Buen Vivir – Good living and Dying’ and New Zealand’s Hauora and indigenous models like Fonofale, Te Wheke, and Te Whare Tapa Whā. Both cultures remind us that health is not measured in deficits, but in strengths, preferences, abilities, and the courage to lead our own journeys. They teach us that care and support is about empowering people to write their own stories, to choose their own paths, and to be honoured for all they are.
Witnessing the work of allied health professionals in Mexico, whether in the heartbeat of the city or the quiet landscapes of rural communities, revealed a universal truth. Across both Mexico and Aotearoa New Zealand, the aim is unwavering: to restore agency, provide comfort, and celebrate every life story. This is the essence of care, united by compassion, strengthened by diversity, and illuminated by love.
Returning to New Zealand, I am filled with gratitude for my heritage and renewed passion for holistic care. The most impactful support comes when science and spirit walk hand in hand. Caring for our elders with dignity is not just a duty, but a sacred act, echoing the Mexican proverb: amor con amor se paga, love is repaid with love. Let us cherish those who paved the way and honour them with hearts full of compassion.
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